Being the little whore I am, I decided to meet a guy I met on Manhunt. His profile picture seemed decent and his online persona seemed nice. We exchanged a few pleasant online chats and my interest only grew. Then we spoke to each other on the phone. I absolutely abhor talking on the phone … Continue reading What did he just order? →

I have been posting a daily self-portrait of myself on Flickr since June. Today's picture (included at the bottom) is somewhat out of focus as the auto-focus feature of my digital point and shoot camera elected to focus on the fence in the frame and not me. I am a bit blurry in the background. … Continue reading Self-Pity Party →

I think I was cruised today in the locker room at the gym where I work. I had just finished a lengthy workout. I was a bit tired and more than just a bit hungry. I went into the locker room really only thinking about one thing, getting the hell home. So I quickly got … Continue reading Going on a Cruise… →

When I woke up Saturday morning I received a text message from my Australian friend that he was in town for the Cyndi Lauper "True Colors" concert. There was no way I could afford tickets, but my friend suggested we meet up for lunch. So I headed downtown and met him at Starbucks near Copley … Continue reading The Geek Goes to the Club →

Last night I celebrated the end of the semester and the beginning of a new chapter in my "out" life. I had been looking forward to this ever since we kicked around the idea several weeks ago. My friends dressed me up in a harness and wrist restraints then took me to a leather bar. … Continue reading The Leather Bar →

I am more than just a little bit annoyed with my brother. In my last post, I wrote about how I came out to him. I thought this would move us closer as brothers. I thought he would feel free to communicate with me considering he now knew we were both gay. I knew he … Continue reading My Brother… →

So here's how it went... To put it mildly, the experience was a bit surreal. I had been mulling over the decision to tell him ever since I planned on flying out to SF. My brother has been out since 1991. I figured he was the least threatening audience in my family that I will … Continue reading Coming Out to My Gay Brother… →

So much for my attempt at consistent blogging! Here is some more (if not belated) info on my transition out of the closet... I have attended two naked parties. The first naked party was for the Superbowl. That was a new experience attending a party that was for naked gay men and watching the Superbowl … Continue reading Naked Parties →

Whenever one door closes, another one opens. I am sure this will sound shallow, and I admit it is shallow, but my sorrow over screwing up the friendship in my previous blog entry was rather short-lived. I got his cryptic email on Wednesday and fretted over it all Thursday and most of Friday. Friday night … Continue reading Making new friends… →